Self-Esteem vs

Srinivas Lohith
2 min readApr 1, 2021

Agree or disagree? Do you think human nature is to dominate, cooperate, both or….?

We can act symbiotically or as a parasite. We can choose predation or collaboration.

When we live in scarcity, an egoic self-defense mechanism takes over our consciousness which cannot think in terms of wholes or relationships — the person starts seeing reality only in partial terms, unable to consider the perspective of others and of reality as a whole. This selfishness creates an unbalanced mind that only considers its own needs, losing empathy for others and wanting to dominate instead of cooperate.

This divide is one of the causes of the great impotence and sickness in society, where people perpetuate a world of castes disguised as “classes” –a slavery as result of human greed, abuse and crazy competition. In this modality of thought, people don’t see others as family or don’t wish for others what they would wish for themselves.

It’s important to remind us of the principle of fraternity in order to empower ourselves with a society which is better for everyone, not a feudalism of divided slaves disguised as a democracy. Let us end the unnecessary fights and the delusions that divides us and return to our original state of connection. It is not easy to surrender to the truth of unity in a divided world that glamourizes prejudice and divisions. Rejection traumas and inflated egos conditioned by an inferiority complex is the norm in a society that is based on scarcity in the first place.

Living based on love, forgive (better understanding never leads to forgiveness) and be grateful, truthful, loyal and at least you won’t amplify your own problems. Living in fear, guilt and hate is the main problem in our lives. Surrender to empathy but don’t turn off your intellect. Your judgment, needs to be balanced by empathy if you want to use your consciousness properly. If you start showing gratitude in words the more you will more responsible of giving back.

When you live a life of surrender, you don’t care about useless competition, you want to be one with reality instead of fighting over it.

There’s nothing right or wrong, it’s only what’s right according to you. But the circumstances as also be followed. Like an every job or an agreement as an terms and conditions policy. Since every word meaning changes until unless we know the situation so that the explanation required, it may be an gratitude or forgiveness. Why it is right? Why it is wrong? When you are to be in an eco-state.

To an incomplete writing…………The End

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